Christmas Eve Countdown: Harp Happiness and Joy
Christmas Eve is nearly here and the music-making and merriment is in full swing. It’s likely you have been making plenty of music already this season and are looking forward to the final push to those Christmas eve church services.
If, however, you find that you aren’t looking forward to the playing but instead are only looking forward to having them over and done for another year, it’s time to banish “Bah, humbug” and discover some pointers that will bring the “comfort and joy” to these final days of holiday frenzy.
So to help you through these last days of Christmas performances, I offer you my top “Harp Happiness and Joy” tips to help you play your best and ease the stress.
HH and Joy Tip #1: Reduce, Reuse, Recycle
If there is one piece of music on your program for this week that is giving you extra stress, re-think your plan. Can you change it out for an easier one? Cut out the “hard” verse and do the simpler one twice? Bring out an old favorite that you could play in your sleep? Having the wrong piece listed in the program is a small price to pay for your peace of mind.
HH and Joy Tip #2: Just Say No
Cross one thing, musical or not, off your holiday list without doing it. I don’t mean that you should back out on a playing commitment, but if you’re feeling harried, you can probably find one thing that you can eliminate from your schedule that really won’t make a difference. Your Christmas cards can go out after Christmas, for example. If it can safely be left undone, you probably shouldn’t do it.
HH and Joy Tip #3: Buy Extra Batteries
My battery-operated music stand light is my best friend in a dimly lit church. Make sure you have one at the ready with extra batteries. Even better, take those batteries out of the package and put them in a little plastic bag where you can get to them quickly if you need to.
HH and Joy Tip #4: Take a Hike
Okay, perhaps not a hike, but a nice walk is a wonderful stress reducer. It’s easy to let your exercise regimen slip when you get busy or when the weather gets bad, but this is not the time to neglect your health. Do your best to maintain your regular health habits. Or just take a walk and look at the neighborhood lights.
HH and Joy Tip #5: Slow Down Your Practice
You probably feel the holiday pressure creeping into your practice. Be deliberate about practicing your music slowly, perhaps 2/3 tempo, so that you keep your fingers calm and your mind focused. Do some very slow and relaxed finger warm-ups. This is not the time for feats of technical prowess. Concentrate on your posture, your relaxation, your tone. Panicky practice leads to sloppy and unmusical playing.
HH and Joy Tip #6: Take Time for Something (or Someone) You Love
Remember that I asked you to cross one thing off your list without doing it? This is the perfect thing to put in its place. Whether it’s a moment to yourself with a cup of tea or calling a distant relative or meeting a friend for coffee, take the time to savor something that is special to you this week.
HH and Joy Tip #7: Plan for the New Year
The most effective way to ease yourself over a difficult stretch is to see beyond it. Give a thought or two to what you will do musically in the New Year. Is there music you want to learn? Order it now. Or schedule a lesson with a teacher now for after the holidays. Whatever is on your list for 2018, thinking about that now will take some of the pressure off you now.
Enjoy your music-making this week. Harp-y Holidays!
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Helen Punch
Thank you so much Anne for all your great tips over the year! Have a wonderful Christmas and a fantastic new year! Warmest wishes, Helen
Carole Mask
Wonderful tips! Thank you for all you do to encourage Harp Happiness!
Roberta
They were all such wonderful tips! Thank you so much for all you do for us in Harp Happiness. I hope you and yours have a Blessed, Wonderful and Merry Christmas and a very Happy 2018.
Ritajayne
Thank you Anne. I love these blogs. I totally look forward to reading them.
Susan
spot On and I thank you for the reminders and grounding.
joe wessels
Love tips 3-6, especially # 3 – packaging these days has gotten to the point where you need scissors or a sharp knife to get to the batteries. Very frustrating when you need them in a hurry.
Tracy Sweet
thanks so much Anne, that is all such practical and helpful advice. I find that slowing down really helps to relax,
Sherj DeSantis
A perfect post Anne. Thank you and Merry Christmas!
Pam Archbold, CCM
Great suggestions especially #5!
Joy Slavens
Well said, Anne. Merry Christmas!
I have so many goals for the new year . I am excited to get to January 2!